Do
you ever have one of those weeks with all the best intentions and a nice to do
list but then it just doesn’t happen. Seems to me this week there have only
been two things I really needed to do other than the normal errands, and I
haven’t gotten either one of them done.
One
thing I’ve needed to do is finances, which I have worked on, but not completely
updated, nor have I done my usual preparations for the new month and payday is
coming fast upon us. I’m behind schedule. This means I’m going to be spending,
well I’m assuming as much of today and tomorrow, and Friday, and possibly
Saturday and again on Monday and probably still on Tuesday as possible updating
my checkbook registers, balancing accounts and paying bills. Yes, it takes me
that much time. If it was just my own accounts I could do it in a day, but I
have to deal with the men in my family too, and their accounts. I could spend
all day on how frustrating my husband is and another day on how frustrating our
oldest son is, which is almost as bad as his dad.
Then
again, I won’t get to spend any full day on finances anyway because my family
won’t let me. At some point they’ll need me to run them somewhere or go to the
store or there’ll be some reason they need my attention and of course it’ll be
more important than getting the bills paid.
The
other thing I’ve needed to get done this week, and I even started, at least
three different times, was writing this post. Now writing anything has its own
set of problems. There is still the very real issue of interruptions, but there
is also the problem with losing your train of thought.
Three
different time I started this post and got a fair piece written than last my
train of thought. I couldn’t finish it. I couldn’t even make sense of what I’d
already written. Scrap that. Start again. Then that one didn’t even work.
I
can easily blame my distractions. Most of the time I was in the middle of
writing and one or more family members would either come in to talk to me or
they’d insist I needed to be doing something else. Okay so at least once that
was taking them to a doctor’s appointment and another time it was going to the
store because we were out of things. But honestly none of those ideas worked
because they weren’t well thought out to begin with. Or maybe they were too
well thought out. Sometimes just typing what you are thinking works far better
than trying to focus on a topic.
I’ve
been told, more than once that steam of thought writing can simulate the
creative process. Maybe it can. It can sure help get a post written when no
ideas are coming to you.
On
the home front two special things have arrived in the mail since I last posted.
First, and just this week, I received a wedding announcement from my oldest
child. The other one was a letter to our youngest daughter accepting her into
the program at her college she wanted to get into, her first step on becoming a
veterinarian.
And
lastly, next week we celebrate the birth of our nation. I saw a post on
Facebook asking what symbolized the Fourth of July to you. My first thought was
birthday cake. Bonnie and I celebrate our birthday the next day.
Have
a Happy Fourth. Happy Birthday Bonnie.
Smile.
Make the day a brighter day.
