Using Commonsense by Bonnie Le Hamilton

It is that time of year again when so many people start spouting off, “If you’re cold, they’re cold!” These people are not only insisting that pet owners bring their pets inside, apparently, they are calling the police on the pet owners for animal cruelty.

The issue with this is that they are calling the police on people who own dogs that originate from areas known for the cold! Sometimes, we are talking about dogs bred to work in cold conditions!

One fellow was forced to put a sweater on his husky because the neighbor kept calling the police because his dog was out in his yard instead of inside. It’s a husky! A breed suited for pulling sleds in the Alaskan wilderness.

And there are other breeds of dog, who have thick coats of fur and love the snow. It is just absurd that anyone would think such fur-coated animals are cold when we humans, who are definitely not fur-coated, are cold.

I do admit there are dog breeds that would not like the cold and would rather be inside during the cold weather. Use some commonsense people. When we are talking about a breed intended for colder climates, it would be sensible to be concerned with them being outside when it is hot instead of inside with the air conditioning.

On another note, someone recently posted on a neighborhood site in my area urging everyone to keep their cats inside because hawks and owls are in this area, and they could take off with said cats.

Again, use some common sense! Full-grown hawks and owls are not generally that heavy, which is why they focus on smaller rodents for their meals. A kitten might be in danger of being snatched by one of these birds, but not a full-grown cat. An eagle would be able to manage that kind of weight, but not a hawk or owl, neither of which tops more than five pounds. A standard house cat can get up to fourteen pounds, and Main Coons are even bigger than that.

Now I admit all three birds of prey can be found in the less densely populated regions around here closer to the Reservation or the woods, but they have not been seen in the middle of the city. Especially the eagle. So, the likelihood of a cat being killed by birds is slim at best.

I admit that there is the danger of cars in the city, but that isn’t going to stop some cats from going outside. Mine included. Some cats are fearless. He’s also slightly bigger than standard.

I figure if he has a way to get inside on his own, which he does, he’s perfectly safe. He can run and hide inside if danger comes around. And he does. Anytime a delivery driver shows up when he’s outside, he charges inside to hide under my bed.

All I’m really saying is don’t dictate to other people what you deem to be the best way to raise a pet when you are not used to that breed. And I’m sure Konnie will agree with me because in their house they have or have had dogs that enjoy the cooler temperatures and dogs that prefer the warmer temperatures, contingent upon where their breed originated.

I say if the animal isn’t chained to a doghouse or a pole, and has means to get inside on his own, leave them be. Let alone consider the breed as well as the weather.

As for my cat going outside. He sticks close to home and comes inside whenever any unknown person comes into the area. I’m sure, if he deemed a bird of prey a danger to him, he’d run inside too. But that is a big “if” since I’ve never seen any such bird in the city, in the countryside, but not the city. And, again, hawks and owls are not big enough to carry off a full-grown cat!

And even as I write about using common sense, I despair that far too many people out there don’t have any. I see too many instances of stupidity happening online on a daily basis to conclude that people do not have the ability to use their brains before they act or speak.

Not just the people calling the cops because a pet with a heavy fur coat is outside in the cold, but also for all the people who seem to think that a person is only disabled when the disability is noticeable at first sight.

I constantly find myself wondering when someone is going to approach me and insist, that I’m not disabled, despite my disabled plates. Some disabilities are not visible!

Anyway, happy writing everyone, and take sensible care of your pets!

 

Of Red Beard and Persnickety Doors by Konnie Enos

 

Yesterday, I was sitting on my bed doing something on my computer when my attention was momentarily grabbed by the sound of the nearby bathroom closing. I glanced up, not expecting to see much if someone had just gone in there. However, I did see my son walking away from the bathroom.

Now I know I did not mix him up with any other member of the family because well, he’s huge. Maybe not by most standards because he isn’t even six feet tall. However, he is more than 50 pounds heavier than his dad and sister, not to mention about 5 inches taller. He’s nearly 11 inches taller than I am.

But beyond his obvious size, he is also the only person in this household with whiskers since my husband is clean shaven. Then again, if my husband had a beard, it would be as white as his hair is. My brunette-haired son has an obvious red beard. Even if his brother still lived here and was growing out his beard, his brother’s beard is the same color of his hair (which is brown).

This is all to say that my son sticks out. I could not have mixed him up with any other family member.

I assumed because the bathroom door was clearly shut, one of the other two family members had gone in there as he was coming out. Since my husband tends to spend quite a bit of time in the bathroom, I assumed it was him.

Now to what happened a few minutes later.

I needed to use the bathroom, but I had not seen anyone else come out of or otherwise anywhere near the bathroom. My husband had come into our room, and I asked if anyone was in it.

Not only did he not know, but he said he hadn’t been in there or where he could have seen the door, though he did comment that the door was closed.

Normally, if it’s closed I’ll just hurry to the other bathroom. This time, I decided to check merely because I had not seen my daughter near it, and I could hear my son talking to someone in his bedroom. (I assumed on his phone since no visitors were causing the dogs to react to their presence.)

Since all my family members, including my husband, tend to always remember to lock the bathroom door, I figured if it was locked, I’d ask who was in there. Though my option was my daughter since I was talking to my husband and could hear my son.

The door wasn’t locked, and the bathroom was empty.

Well, when I was done using the facilities, and making sure I left the door open, I went to my son’s bedroom, stuck my head in and chewed him out for shutting the door.

I then promptly returned to my room.

It was sometime later, after he got off his phone call, he came to discuss it with me.

He insisted he hadn’t shut the door though did indicate that he often pushes it so close to shut that I cannot tell the difference from my bed.

Okay, true. I do generally have difficulty telling if it is latched or not from my bed. However, this time I had gone up to the door and grasped the handle. If it hadn’t been completely latched it would have moved. It didn’t. I had to turn the knob to unlatch it.

My son maintains that he did not shut the door. The evidence suggests that he did.

He even admitted that his dad was in the other bathroom when he went into the nearest one so there was no reason for his dad to go in there.

I also know it was not my daughter. Not only because I had not seen her, but because she never closes the door when she’s done. She always leaves it most of the way ajar.

On the other hand, Royce is notorious for closing it far enough for it to appear completely closed. Though I can’t say he’s the only one because I’ve done it occasionally and I’ve seen my husband do it.

Due to that bathroom being tiny, the door opens out. So, as you are leaving it is really easy to put enough backward motion on the door for it to swing mostly shut. I can only assume that’s what my son did yesterday.

Although to accept that outcome, I also have to assume that the persnickety bathroom door that prefers to be slammed, firmly pulled or otherwise have some real effort put into it before it will fully latch, actually did so without any effort at all.

It’s mind blowing.

Smile. Make the day a brighter day.

To-Do Lists and Me by Bonnie Le Hamilton

My To-Do List is never as long or detailed as Konnie’s, but yesterday, I woke up with a few things I needed to get done.

The only problem is that I didn’t manage to get any of them done, and honestly, a few of them have been on my To-Do List for quite a while. I keep trying to tell myself to work harder at getting them done, and I even wrote a list some time ago, but actually remembering it and getting stuff done off that list? That’s another issue altogether.

This last week, I set one single goal for several days in a row, which I did because I didn’t manage to get it done until the fourth day. This week, I have another goal, and I’m not sure I’ll ever get it done. I should have managed it yesterday, but I just couldn’t work up the gumption.

Honestly, not being able to work up the gumption was what took me four days to accomplish my previous goal. It’s a good thing I don’t have any deadlines to meet because I’m getting nowhere fast.

Of course, unlike Konnie, I have issues with getting things done that have nothing to do with outside forces. I can goof off all day even when I have things I should be getting done.

Konnie on the other hand tends to actively attempt to get through her To-Do List just to have life and family get in her way. The only thing really in my way is my brain being unwilling to concentrate on those tasks “just yet” until I’m yawning every few seconds.

I am, of course, on the spectrum, which would say it all, except part of my problem is how much physical exertion the tasks on my list would require.

Another thing is, Konnie talked about needing to make some calls. Sounds easy, doesn’t it? Not for me. Before I can make a call, I have to work out what I’m going to say, and why I’m going to say it, and I have to emotionally prepare myself for the interaction. Making a phone call can take me several days, if not weeks, to accomplish. And the less I can figure out all possible scenarios, the more likely I’ll put off making the call.

I for one can call my sister-in-law or Konnie with no issues, I have to be pretty desperate to call my friend Elizabeth. When it is someone, I don’t know as well, it’s even harder.

And sometimes I just forget I need to make the call until it’s too late in the day.

Actually, I do that a lot.

Then there is the issue of doing things like everyday chores or balancing my checkbook. Those are again things I have to work up the stamina to do them, and, in the case of balancing my checkbook, I have to have the correct amount of alertness, and the precisely required setting in order to accomplice that difficult task.

Konnie doesn’t have my issues with math, or rather numbers.

Though both of us always had difficulty reading a face clock, even back in grade school when we were being taught how to do it. I had to sit there for a minute or two to work out what the time was.

I can remember as a teenager being at the city swimming pool and wanting to know the time. Now that place had a huge clock on the wall in the office that could be seen from the pool if you were by the one lifeguard station. That is if you weren’t nearsighted.

I went up to that lifeguard and asked him what time it was. He pointed at the clock behind him. A clock I could see was there, but without my glasses, I couldn’t see it clearly enough to see the hands.

I told him, “I’m fully aware there’s a clock there, but my glasses are in my locker.”

He told me the time.

I was just glad I couldn’t actually see it clearly enough because that gave me a valid excuse to ask, rather than just look for myself. I promise it was faster to ask. And when the first digital watches came out, I couldn’t wait to get one. No more struggle!

Nowadays, the only time I have to worry about that issue is when I’m at my sister-in-law’s and I am faced with all those clocks everywhere. Sometimes I panic about that, but I don’t need to depend on all those things for the time, so I’m fine. That’s what I get for having a sister-in-law who collects clocks.

As far as I’m concerned, the digital age is wonderful.

Anyway, happy writing everyone!

 

Of To-Do Lists and Late Nights by Konnie Enos

 

I woke up yesterday with a whole list of things I wanted to get done.

Cook some stir fry.

Do three loads of laundry.

Do some necessary phone calls regarding bills and such.

Update my checkbooks.

Clean the kitchen.

But most importantly, write my post.

When I finally woke up, I dilly dallied in bed because it get cold at night in the desert. (I mean freezing, as in under 32 degrees Fahrenheit.) It warms up to more comfortable temperatures when the sun comes up. So therefore, I stayed in bed until the early morning sun had time to warm things up.

Then, after I had breakfast, I started my laundry and went to work on the checkbooks. I would have done the cooking first, but Melinda was cooking one of her favorite dishes that happens to be too spicy for my palate. All things considered, two people using the one stove at the same time is rather crowded so I waited.

After my first load of laundry was in, I started making those phone calls then worked on updating my checkbooks. Doing that caused me a few moments of concern because my personal checkbook wasn’t balancing. It took me a few minutes of effort to find out what the issue was and correct it.

I was still working on it when Jerry returned from his Tuesday morning job and my first load finished. I told him to get it in the dryer and put my second load in before returning to the checkbook issue.

I did eventually get the checkbooks updated and was able to switch the loads and put my third one in. Now at this point, I could have worked on my post, but I still had no idea what I was going to write about. I also might have been able to clean the kitchen, but I could still smell her spicy food, so I was avoiding the kitchen. But it was still fairly early in the day, so I did some more dilly dallying. Eventually, I got my third load out of the washer (they were all delicate, line dry items) and hung them up. Then I got my second load out of the dryer and miracle of miracles actually immediately folded them and put them and put them away. At this point, I still hadn’t done so with the first load.

By this time, I was getting hungry, and the spicy smell had dissipated so I went to the kitchen to cook my stir fry. I should have cleaned the kitchen after that but ended up going back to my room and putting away that first load of laundry and getting lost down that rabbit hole known as Facebook.

Now at this point I’m thinking Jerry has been going to bed around 9 p.m. so that was early enough to put some focus on my post and still get to bed at a reasonable hour myself. For this reason, I made the mistake of not paying attention to the time.

I did notice when the dogs got fed but didn’t move at all or even remind Jerry of the time. I also managed to take my medicine on time. I even saw my daughter head into the bathroom to get her nightly shower.

What I didn’t notice was her leaving the bathroom and Jerry hadn’t come to bed yet, so I still thought it was around 9 p.m., maybe 9:30. Then I heard a dog scratching at the bedroom door and wondered why Jerry wasn’t getting the door for whichever dog it was. Then before I could react, someone let Xavier in. It wasn’t Jerry because whoever it was didn’t walk into my line of sight. At this point I could see the bathroom door was closed and the light was on so I was assuming it was Melinda in there.

I told Xavier to find Jerry. Jerry responded from the bathroom. He also told me Melinda had gone to bed some time ago.

I looked. It was not only after midnight, but it was very nearly one in the morning.

Needless to say, I did not want to get up this morning, especially not that early. When my alarm went off I turned it off and snuggled back under my blanket. I finally managed to drag myself out of bed when I heard Melinda preparing Ivan’s food and medicines for his morning meal.

But I went right to work and my post so now I’ve completed everything on yesterday’s to-do list except clean the kitchen. Maybe after breakfast.

How is your week going?

Smile. Make the day a brighter day.

Of Reading and Collections by Bonnie Le Hamilton

 

There is nothing like losing track of what day of the week it is, let alone forgetting you have stuff that needs to be done.

I’m sorry for the late post, but I didn’t even realize it was Wednesday until Konnie messaged me, and I wasn’t even awake at the time.

My sleep schedule is all messed up right now. I woke up early and got breakfast for myself and my cat, then back to sleep. I was still asleep when Konnie decided to call. Not that I didn’t realize I needed to write something, she had already messaged me, but like I said, I was asleep.

I guess I should point out that lately, I’m lucky if I’m awake by noon. I am trying, but that starts with getting to sleep at a decent hour. So far, I haven’t managed that feat.

And I’d like to say I have been staying up so late writing, but the fact is, I’ve been reading. I’ve been doing a ton of reading. I’m talking somewhere around six or seven books a week.

Yeah, that’s a lot of reading.

For starters I managed to purchase a few new eBooks and of course I had to read them! I had been smart about it when it came to the next three books in the Miss Fortune series and I only read those three, rather than starting at the beginning again. Though the truth is, I read the first twelve books a couple of weeks ago, then I realized I had enough money to buy just three more of them.

Now I have fifteen of the twenty-eight books in that series.

After I read them, I thought about rereading one of my Linda Goodnight series’, I have something like three of those.

Then I considered that I’d read quite a few of her books last month, so I decided I should reread my Brenda Minton books. Some of those are not eBooks, so I had to dig those few hard copy books out first.

The thing is, along with a few stand-alone books, I have one series mostly in hard copy with the last two of that series in eBooks, then the next series she has takes off where that series left off, I have seven books in that series, but I’m not sure that’s all there is. I’m also already on book five of that second series.

And let me remind you that I have several other series in my possession. I also have a whole ton of Dick and Felix Francis books, and they have two series in their collection.

And I have the Percy Jackson and Harry Potter books, but both of them have more books associated with those series’ which I don’t have, yet. Emphasis on the “yet.”

Then there is my Work and the Glory books (an LDS series) and I’m still missing some of the Fishers of Men series. I’d really like to get all of them.

Actually, I don’t have all of the Fairhaven series, yet but I do have the author’s book, The Healing Place. And I wouldn’t mind rereading that one.

And let's not forget that I have the first nineteen of the Boxcar Children books. Please don’t consider getting me any of the rest, the original author only wrote the first nineteen. I’m not interested in any of the others which don’t pay attention to the timeline of the first nineteen. I read one once where Benny was still six, but they knew their great aunt, who they didn’t even meet until Benny was nine, and she as married to Andy in that book, but she didn’t marry Andy until Benny was at least eleven!

Yeah, I collect books along with Nativities or really anything depicting Christ’s life, owls, eagles, and well, Barbies. I just don’t have room to display the Barbies. I do have a lot. And being on the spectrum, I’m pretty fussy about which authors I like and which I don’t. Let alone being picky about sticking the established timeline, story.

Which is why I hate the Harry Potter movies. And it isn’t about what they left out. I understand that it is hard to condense over three hundred pages to only a one hundred and eighty pages at most, but I don’t understand taking out so much then adding in elements that wasn’t in the books! I really hate those shrunken heads. Enough said.

Anyway, Happy writing everyone.